My Cutie Little Pie

Yi En's N 外公

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My hubby blames me for bringing our gal to Cousin Li Peng's wedding. Tt nite she was ganna frighten up for a few times. :( sad. At night she also got a nightmare. Mummy is so sorry for u.

23 JAN 2010, M'sia Cousin, Li Peng's Wedding

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23 Jan was Li Peng Big day. Doll up my little gal, Rienn and we went to her wedding dinner @ J.B. Here are some of Rienn's Cutie Pictures. Now she can makes alot of different expression.Damn Cute!!!!!!!! ( 3mths+ 3days old Yi En.)

Rienn is cute isnt it? With the outfit...Baby Zara top, Baby Gap Legging & Winnie the Pooh hat.

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海派甜心 "Hi, My Sweetheart

Watch this "海派甜心 "Hi, My Sweetheart" its a v interesting and funny show.

Alternative Title: 海派甜心/Hai Pai Tian Xin
Genre: Comedy, Romance
Film Date: November, 2009
Total Episodes: 25
Taiwan Casts:Lee Wei, Rainie Yang, Show Lo
Description:
Xue Hai was a certifiable dork when he first arrived in Shanghai. After his schoolmate Bao Zhu saved him from bullying, she became his first love. Then, a misunderstanding caused them to lose contact when she moved back to Taiwan. He thought she dumped him. So he transformed himself from a dork to a hunk in order to seek revenge.

***Light Sleeper Baby & Cry it Out Method***

My little gal (Rienn) was a light sleeper. I find it trouble to settle her down to sleep. She was easily woken up by sounds/noises like ringing phones, running around, voices and even cooking or movement nearby. I find her very sensitive. She tends to also be very easily stimulated when she was awake and may be intense in the responses to the environment. MANY times those sudden sound startle her & making her fling out her arms and legs and waking her. My Parents advise me to snugly swaddle her so that she wont startle awake. ( very headache. Anyone can help me please. NONE. )

"Cry it out"Method

I read an article It said it's okay to leave your baby to cry, if necessary, although the baby don't advocate letting the baby cry endlessly. Typically these approaches suggest putting the baby to bed when he/she's still awake and allowing short periods of crying punctuated by comforting (but not picking up) the child.The most well known "cry it out" technique is the one developed by pediatrician Richard Ferber, director of the Center for Pediatric Sleep Disorders at Children's Hospital Boston. He says that in order to fall asleep on their own and sleep through the night, babies have to learn to soothe themselves. He also believes that teaching a baby to soothe himself/herself may involve leaving him/her alone to cry for prescribed periods of time.

So hubby please allow me to lock the door. As noones is going to pick her up. By all mean, I would like to try out this CIO method. If you really really cannot control the noise at night. (Bcos u rather choose to let ur OWN baby cry than HER crying. I can make sure she cry for one whole hour TOO.) I am not going to pat her to sleep when i already patting her for an hour or baby cradle her for long hours till she sleeps. Yet awake by unnecessary noises. (U knw how PEK CHAK is it?) I will be freaking piss off if i can't get enough sleep esp. next day i need to wake up damn early to feed her (also every 3hrly) and then go for work. U think i will have enuff slp? Seeing my gal startle awake, fling out her hands and knocking her own head. Then next day ask me to give her JING FONG SAN to eat. What is the point man. Jing Fong San is only for 1 yr old & above to consume. Read the label yourself please. Noboby will understand if only you are a MOTHER.

Mother said your daughter is lighter than Legolas( qin's Son) nowaday. You Know why? Cos she is not a Happy baby. Always got frighten up. & Making her stools GREENISH & watery (everytime let her Lao qi sai lo). Already 1 mth when i started to move back. Everyday ask me to give her JING FONG SAN lo. My tolerant also got a limit. Dun make me carry her out the house. (Sorry to say that, cos i am v agitated now.)

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Rienn @ 10 weeks old

My Little EnEn can now lift up her head but not very firm yet. & started to coo & gurgle. It's was very interesting. ( Rienn was a very talkative boi, oops..it gal.) lolz.

19 Oct 2009 (Mon) having contraction

Recalled back.....

My actual due date was on 21 October. & i took my ML one week( 12th Oct) earlier as bcos my legs were killing me. By then i had gained for nearly 20kgs. Feeling so clumsly when walking.

Tt nite(19 Oct), i was at home watching channel 8 news, i started to feel uneasy. My lower part started to feel painful. At 1st, I thought it was okay. Cos b4 tt i had the same pain occurred a few days ago. So i tried to ignore & continue watching the news. The pain ( Contraction) occur every 15mins then 10mins one time. I had endured for nearly 2hrs. Cos my MIL said, "u go hospital oso no use, bcos u oso have to wait"." Not so fast de". About 12am, i quicky ask my hubby to take my bag and sent me to Mount Alvernia cos the pain was unbearable.

Reaching the hospital was about 12.10am. V fast cos there were less cars on the road. I was sent to the delivery room to wait. & my hubby went dwn to settle the paperwork thingy. V fast the nurse approached me. She checked on my uterus n told me tt it was only 2cm open. So probably still have to wait for 7 hrs to let it open to 10cm. Sob sob.. ;( I remember the 1st thing the nurse asked me was.. do i nid epidural. I insisted i dun want. But she said, r u sure u dun want? cos u r looking so painful nw, u knw? & she continued to say, the pain will be like 10x u r suffering right nw. In my mind i said tis "OMG, is she trying to frighten me & wanting me to take the epidural. & i still insisted i dun want.

Times passed vv slow tt nite. 1omins was like 1hr to me. I waited & waited... my uterus become more & more painful. Every half an hr the nurses come and check on me. They do scanning for my baby to ensure she still had her heartbeat beating. At 4plus.. the nurse asked me to slp sideway cos she said they couldnt detact my baby heartbeat and was like kinda low. Wa~ sleeping sideway increase the pain i had. Looking at the clock was only 4.30am i still got 3 more fucking hours to endure. Cannot cannot cannot. I nid injection. Quicky ask my hubby to call the nurses in for an injection. i had an injection on my thigh. & the oxygen they gif me to inhale doesnt have much use to ease my pain. & i tried to slp straight to relieve the pain. When nurses saw me, she asked me to slp sideway agn and curl up so tt they could use the equipment to check on my bb heartbeating. Until tt time( 5am), i surrendered. I begged for an epidural quicky. Aft the injection on my backbone, i started to feel beta but my whole boby started to shiver. Cos d medicine tt goes in was cold. My water bag burst aft the injection.

At 7plus, tt stupid gynea arrived. He checked my uterus, and told me its had opened 9cm. But my baby head still cannot be seen. He's doing some checking and told me. I think u had to go for an OPERATION. Because the baby heartbeat seem to be low and the head jam at ur pelvic bone. ( He oso said my pelvic bone too narrow to let the baby out) So die die must go for OPERATION lo(caesarean). That moment,i started to shiver,worry & frighten. Hearing the doc said, my baby heartbeat beating was low. Right away, i said okok caesarean. He saw me feeling so tense up and frightening. He suggested to me for a GA. Meaning putting me to slp during the operation. I said NoNONo. I want to b the 1st to see my gal when she out to this world. lolz

During the operation, i can feel him cutting, burning & tearing my skin apart. Luckily my hubby was beside me giving me full support. If not i will be so scare.

The moment i hear my baby crying.. i felt extremely happy. At last. Going thru 8hrs of pain, nw she was finally out. lolz. Aft the nurses cleansed her. They carried her and put it on my chest to show me hw she looks like. She had small eyes ( her eyes was shut) small nose & small lip..lolz obviously right.

Afterall, it was worth it. Seeing my little Rienn (EnEn) all my pain and hardship doesnt seem to exist.

201209 Rienn @ 2mths

First Christmas gift for my Little EnEn

Old pictures taken in 2008

I wanted to slim dowwwwwwwn. After giving birth, i look like an auntie. vvv fat.....now. Hopefully these pics can motivate me. :)

My little Rienn One month old

Mummy loves you,En En.
More photo at RIENN's BLOG ( http://riennongyien.blogspot.com/ )

Should I worry about spoiling my baby?

Many elderly advice us not to pamper the babies, not to carry her when she cry or rock her so much. Well, as expert said,"Ignore the advice of well-meaning relatives who think babies need to learn independence." Instead, listen to your parental instinct — that inner voice that tells you to comfort your baby when she cries. Young babies are completely spoil-proof. Your baby needs all the care and attention you can give."Spoiled children" have learned to use negative behavior to get what they want. But the baby is too young to purposefully manipulate or annoy you. She cries to communicate her needs, whether they're for a snack, a dry/wet diaper, or a little cuddling with Mom or Dad. When we respond quickly to the baby, we're building her sense of self-worth. We're also establishing a foundation of trust that can last for years to come. If we give the baby prompt attention, she'll feel more secure and less anxious, giving her the courage to explore the world on her own. And once she understands that we take her cries seriously, she'll be less likely to cry for no reason. In the long run, responding quickly to the baby's needs will make her less clingy and demanding, not more. By the time the baby is 6 to 8 months old, she'll be paying close attention to cause and effect — noticing, for instance, that her bowl falls when she drops it from the highchair. She'll also start to see a direct link between her actions and our responses. At this point it's okay to set some limits. If the baby starts crying to get something she doesn't need, hold our ground and give her a hug when she calms down. Similarly, give hugs and praise for good behavior and gently redirect her when she's doing something hazardous.The right blend of love and guidance will eventually help our child understand her place in the world. But for now, our focus should be on giving her as much attention and comfort as we can. No matter how much we give, it's not more than she needs. ( BUT STILL MANY ELDERLY DUN UNDERSTAND AND KEEP TELLING ME DUN PAMPER THE BABY, DUN CARRY HER, LET HER CRY & SHE WILL STOP LATER WHEN NOBODY RESPONSE TO HER. HOW TO COMMUNICATE WITH THEM AR.- *I have been told over and over that i'm spoiling my baby and I feel as if i am sometimes...because she cries for me to pick her up...once i pick her up she stops and start smiling. How can I break her out of that habit early before it gets worse. Babies cry to get our attention because that's the only way they can tell us what they need. As they get older, they will be more effectively able to communicate what they need without crying. I pick up my baby and I hold her plenty. If making my baby feel safe and loved and having her trust me that I am going to take care of her needs means she's spoiled, then I'm gonna spoil her rotten.)

I had a quarrel with my mum on...... She wants my baby to prolong the feeding time from 3hrs to 4hrs. But i am thinking, she was still a newborn baby 13days old. Normal feeding are every 3hourly. If she is hungry how can we stop her from drinking. :S

Its 11am in the morning, my baby gal was crying so i went over to carry her up. I tried to talk to her and hold her tightly but doesn't seem to work. I guess she was hungry. Therefore, i smacking on her lips/Chin (a newborn reflex that causes babies to turn their head toward the hand when we stroke their cheek), She was putting her hands to her mouth. Mostly, she is hungry lo. So i went to the kitchen to ask my mum what was the last feeding on her. She told me was abt 8am. Mentally counting... ya abt 3hrs.. so i asked her to make the milk for me. Out of my expectation. She told me not to carry her and let her cry for awhile and dun feed her so fast. At 1st i try to calm my baby down by comforting/carrying her. But it doesn't work.. and she was crying for abt 5-8mins. As a mother, seeing her crying and screaming so loudly,my whole heart melted. So i went to the kitchen and tell my mum. " SHE IS HUNGRY NOW, HOW CAN WE STOP HER AND DUN GIVE HER MILK." I just said finished. She started to throw her temper at me.& she said" U WANT TO FEED ..THEN FEED LA FEED LA". Then i went in the kitchen to make milk for my bb gal. She felt even more angry and started to BANG things. I tried to tolerate. But seeing my bb gal got frighten for a few times when she heard the SLAMMING sound she made. I started to lose my temper as well. I said/shouted, "She is hungry and crying for milk. How can we dun feed her. & nw u frightened her by making those LOUD BANG.
Aft tt.. she screamed at me ....xsghTYUHJANBZXCVBNM< ( I dun like reveal on wat she said ..something nt v nice to hear.) Then i carried my gal to my own room to feed her.)

Infact, i had alot of quarrelsome with my parent, including my dad. As u know tt, my dad was a regular smoker. I hate to see him smoking inside the master room toilet. Cos it make the whole room so smelly when turning on the Air-con when my baby was sleeping in the room. *STINK* and was so healthy for a baby. My mum thinks tt i am too fussy & over reacted. :@ And something i also dun like abt my dad was tt aft he finished smoking..he likes to carry her & kiss, put his OILY face to stroke on her face. WORSE THING I EVER SEE. I saw him pick up my daughter handkerchief using his foot. OMG, tt handkerchief was for my gal to wipe her mouth u knw. Hw can u use ur foot to pick up and let her use. Therefore i screamed at him. And u knw wat he replied to me. He replied in Hokkien " AR BO UN ZUAN" Meaning... how u wanna me to pick up, He replied. Waste my effort to repy back. Really no common sense. Once aft I saw it..immediately i snatched fm his hand and threw inside the washing machine.

Haiz... wat shld i do. I knw i shldn't be so rude to them. But seeing those movement/reaction they had, really make me so uncomfortable.

My Precious Little Princess

My Precious Little Princess : Rienn Ong Yi En

1St Cried: 20 October 2009

Weighted: 2985Kg Length: 49cm

Met an strange incident on wednesday Night, 2 Sept 09

Wednesday night, i met an strange incident. I was being followed by one indian couple. Both aged between 35-40.

That night, my hubby fetched me back from my work. About 8pm we reached home. As usual, he took my LV handbag back and we walked separate ways. I went over to my mama's hse for dinner. Carrying my own handphone with me. Walked over to my mama's block. Pressing the lift, and wait for the lift to come down from 12th flr. While waiting, i noticed one indian couple was standing behind me. I heard both of them were talking to each other. When the lift was opened, i entered the lift first then they followed behind. And i pressed the button 7 flr, and i stepped back to let them press the button. At first, that indian lady wanted press the button but she was being stopped by that indian guy. I started to find something strange and weird on their reactions. In my mind, i told myself. I had to be very alert on their movements. When i was out from the lift, i intended to walk slowly to check which flr they were going. Never know tt they were following me out fm the lift. I felt even strange, causes staying at 7 flr were all chineses resident. They followed me to my neighbour unit ( 3rm) and i stopped there. Stared at them. That indian guy knee dwn for 10secs and when he standed up, his hands hold a 1litres water bottle. ( My Neighbour leave it outside to water her plants.) I started to ask them, what do they want and what are he trying to do. He replied to me by saying, " I am helping them to water their plants." After hearing that, My reaction was, HUH, with alot of question marks???? Then he continue to said. I knew them, I am their frenz. And i looked ard, noticed tt my neighbour's windows were all closed. I guess theres were no ones in. I started to worry, cause i am a pregnany woman ma. I need to shout for help. So i shouted for my mama, "OPEN THE DOOR." To alert the two indian couples, let them know that there were ppl at home. Then i hurry up entered the hse. My bros & dad were not at home. If not i could ask them to check on them, what r they up to. Told my mum abt the incident and immdiately called my hub to see over my blk on my neighbour unit. To check on the two indians. By the time my hub opened the window and looked over.. he couldnt see them. I guess they were gone. What's a cold sweat.

Red Longchamp La Pliage $60/- SOLD

COACH OP ART GRAPHIC LARGE SABRINA PURSE BAG 12966 NWT $650/-

Coach graphic op art signature sateen fabric
White top stitching
White leather patch on top that goes down front and back, handles and detail connected to this area
All gold hardware
White leather trim, front/back top, and handles
Coach gold horse and carriage embossed on front
3 hang tags Large leather, small metallic, large gold
decorative hoops for handle
approx measurments: 15" (L) x 8" (H) x 7" (W)
14" white leather hard handles with 6" drop
Extra long strap 26" with 15" drop. It stays connected on the bottom and when its used it makes the bag larger.
Zip top closure with leather tear drop pull
Inside large zip pocket with Coach Creed & Serial Number patch
2 Cellphone/multi-function pockets
Interior sateen blue fabric
Ring to clip an accessory or key fob

Quilted Chanel Cambon Ligne Petite Shopping Tote S$1200/-

The above pictured Chanel Cambon PST. The bag is gorgeous black quilted lambskin leather with the classic interlocking Chanel 'C' motif in white. The bag is lined in a stunning cerise pink which adorns the Chanel 'C' logo. On the interior of the bag there are two slots for pencils and two zipped pockets, which both have Chanel stamped zips. 20cm height x 21cm width x 9.5cm depth.

Polo Ralph Lauren Handbag S$85/- **SOLD OUT**

This is a lovely bag. Made of a canvas type material with gold trims. It has a zipped pocket inside, as well as a pocket for a mobile 'phone. 9" high x 13" wide x 5" deep. (23cm x 33cm x 13cm)

13 August 2009 was my mum bday

13 August was my mum birthday so i took leave to bring my mum to ION Orchard for shopping.
I phoned my mum to get ready at 12.30pm and then i booked a cab down to town. We did not manage to finish shopping in ION cause i felt very tired after walking 3-4hrs. i just bought mum a facial oil(Olive)@S$13+ from the WU YIN LIANG PING & a slipper for my hubby costed S$59.90.
We went down the basement, found alot of interesting food >>got Thai, Indo, American styles etc<<> We ate and walked along the food alley. Then walked up again to find a place to sit and had our lunch. I asked my mum, what she wanted to eat. She see see look look, finally chosen a chinese restuarant " Imperial Treasure Noodle & Congee House at B3. Mum ordered a mixed congee and i ordered some dim sum to share. (Steam minced pork dumpling, Chicken feet, steam custard bun, red bean pan cake. ) After finished our lunch, we went over to Shaw centre, ISETAN for baby fair. About 5.30pm we headed back. We met a malay taxi driver. He was very chatty. He told us alot about his wife (when she was pregnant) and his mother used to be a very experience massage lady. About 6pm we reached home. Both of us felt very tired after the long hour shopping. :)